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So, yeah, I do believe that the world would be a better place if extramarital sex were curtailed. Right now most people casually move from one relationship to another. You'll feel the joys of love or the excitement of passion, but those feeling dim and time moves on and you become more desensitized. Sex just becomes something fun to do, with someone you may or may not like, when it's supposed to be so much more. That kind of... disconnection, has got to be detrimental to a society. It's not natural to be so intimate with another human being and be so distant at the same time.
Also, I don't agree that sex is the purest form of love and the most beautiful thing in life. Sex, like I said, is a gift, meant to be shared with someone you love. It's a private, intimate act. It might be the purest *physical* manifestation of a love between two people, and a wonderful, special thing, but it is not the zenith of human experience.
Great love is born of generosity and self-sacrifice. Feeding the poor, visiting the sick and elderly, joining the Peace Corps, actively campaigning for a candidate you believe in, participating in some great act of good that transcends you as an individual... these are all acts of love that are so much more beautiful than sex.
Love expressed by sex can give you great personal joy.
Love expressed by generosity can change the way the world works.
Which is greater?
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